he is depressed i think...wat to do?
my fiance broke up with me 4 days ago, he said our arguement during the last few days was only part of it, but also he was fed up of life, himself, me..im starting to think he may be suffering from depression due to being let down by job prospects abroad : refused jobs in qatar 2 times and waiting for job in italy for over 2.5 years. he is a qualified nurse in Tunisia which pays low so he cant afford to save for us to get engaged or married at the moment. he is also working 2 jobs in hospital&airport to save a bit. but i want to know if ppl wud say he sounds like his suffering from depression, if so what shud i do? i sent him a sms 2 b supportive a few mins ago, but im worried he will isolate himself more unless i do more to fix our relationship..plz help. thx
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1 :
He does sound depressed. He's having a rough time right now and it's only normal to feel down. Have you considered couples counseling?
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Hey Joy, Ok if he's really depressed he'll be feeling lonely and isolated. The best thing for you to do is meet him and comfort him. He needs that. Don't go straigt to depression, calmy ask him if he's okay, and if there's anything he wants to talk about. Talking is key, don't interrogate him, but for him to talk to you is both of yours best hope. Let him know he's not alone, your there if he needs you. Good luck, to you and him.
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Honey, he broke up with you. You have no "relationship". Get over him and stay out of his life, he will deal with it just fine. He is probably playing the wounded lover when you talk because that's what he thinks you want to see. He is probably already dating someone else. Face the facts and get on with YOUR life without him.
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Is this genuine concern for his well being or are you just trying to get him back? Honestly, I think you just need to leave him alone for your own sake. Break ups aren't easy and you need to take some time to heal. In time you can be a friend to him if he is willing (this will take time though). Write him he a letter, a deep letter stating everything you feel about him, you, and the situation. Then cut ties for a while. It will be hard, I know, but this is important for your own well being. Best of luck to you. I've been in your shoes.
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