is he suffering from depression ?
my fiance broke up with me 4 days ago, he said our arguement during the last few days was only part of it, but also he was fed up of life, himself, me..im starting to think he may be suffering from depression due to being let down by job prospects abroad : refused jobs in qatar 2 times and waiting for job in italy for over 2.5 years. he is a qualified nurse in Tunisia which pays low so he cant afford to save for us to get engaged or married at the moment. he is also working 2 jobs in hospital&airport to save a bit. but i want to know if ppl wud say he sounds like his suffering from depression, if so what shud i do? i sent him a sms 2 b supportive a few mins ago, but im worried he will isolate himself more unless i do more to fix our relationship..plz help. thx
Marriage & Divorce - 1 Answers
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Doesn't sound as though he is suffering from that. He has other reasons for breaking up which only you know about because he said that the arguments were only "a part of it". No one would break up a relationship for the reasons you think he has. You need to talk to him to find out if it was just the arguments that made him end the relationship and if not what other reason does he have.
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Friday, January 28, 2011
Friday, January 14, 2011
does this sound like real depression to you
does this sound like real depression to you ?
my fiance broke up with me 4 days ago, he said our arguement during the last few days was only part of it, but also he was fed up of life, himself, me..im starting to think he may be suffering from depression due to being let down by job prospects abroad : refused jobs in qatar 2 times and waiting for job in italy for over 2.5 years. he is a qualified nurse in Tunisia which pays low so he cant afford to save for us to get engaged or married at the moment. he is also working 2 jobs in hospital&airport to save a bit. but i want to know if ppl wud say he sounds like his suffering from depression, if so what shud i do? i sent him a sms 2 b supportive a few mins ago, but im worried he will isolate himself more unless i do more to fix our relationship..plz help. thx
Psychology - 4 Answers
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Yes, it sounds like depression and he is also tired of you. Better start getting on your knees.
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He may be suffering from depression, yes - but that might not be why he broke up with you. He may have been unhappy in the relationship, and that by turn could have made him feel depressed, rather than the other way round. It's impossible to know. However, it's great that you want to be supportive. You can continue to be supportive, unless he makes it clear he wants to be left alone, but give the support unconditionally and don't put him under pressure to continue your relationship, as that will be counter-productive. Explain to him that, regardless of how he feels about you, he seems depressed, and that even though you've broken up, if there's anything you can do to help him, he can let you know and that he shouldn't feel under any pressure.
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the problem is more on your side with your own. give him room. If he needs help from you then he will tell you so. Depression is a personal condition and we can only learn to control it or be medicated for it. The insecurity appearing in your question spells something you ought to discuss with another whom can read between the lines.
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try hypnosis http://myfavoriteinterests.com/hypnosis/
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my fiance broke up with me 4 days ago, he said our arguement during the last few days was only part of it, but also he was fed up of life, himself, me..im starting to think he may be suffering from depression due to being let down by job prospects abroad : refused jobs in qatar 2 times and waiting for job in italy for over 2.5 years. he is a qualified nurse in Tunisia which pays low so he cant afford to save for us to get engaged or married at the moment. he is also working 2 jobs in hospital&airport to save a bit. but i want to know if ppl wud say he sounds like his suffering from depression, if so what shud i do? i sent him a sms 2 b supportive a few mins ago, but im worried he will isolate himself more unless i do more to fix our relationship..plz help. thx
Psychology - 4 Answers
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Yes, it sounds like depression and he is also tired of you. Better start getting on your knees.
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He may be suffering from depression, yes - but that might not be why he broke up with you. He may have been unhappy in the relationship, and that by turn could have made him feel depressed, rather than the other way round. It's impossible to know. However, it's great that you want to be supportive. You can continue to be supportive, unless he makes it clear he wants to be left alone, but give the support unconditionally and don't put him under pressure to continue your relationship, as that will be counter-productive. Explain to him that, regardless of how he feels about you, he seems depressed, and that even though you've broken up, if there's anything you can do to help him, he can let you know and that he shouldn't feel under any pressure.
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the problem is more on your side with your own. give him room. If he needs help from you then he will tell you so. Depression is a personal condition and we can only learn to control it or be medicated for it. The insecurity appearing in your question spells something you ought to discuss with another whom can read between the lines.
4 :
try hypnosis http://myfavoriteinterests.com/hypnosis/
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Friday, January 7, 2011
is he suffering from depression
is he suffering from depression?
my fiance broke up with me 4 days ago, he said our arguement during the last few days was only part of it, but also he was fed up of life, himself, me..im starting to think he may be suffering from depression due to being let down by job prospects abroad : refused jobs in qatar 2 times and waiting for job in italy for over 2.5 years. he is a qualified nurse in Tunisia which pays low so he cant afford to save for us to get engaged or married at the moment. he is also working 2 jobs in hospital&airport to save a bit. but i want to know if ppl wud say he sounds like his suffering from depression, if so what shud i do? i sent him a sms 2 b supportive a few mins ago, but im worried he will isolate himself more unless i do more to fix our relationship..plz help. thx
Mental Health - 1 Answers
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It does sound as though he is depressed, but then who can blame him as you explained his job situation, being turned down all the time from job prospects would bring anyone down. The key signs is when he said that he is fed up with life, himself and you. Depression sufferers often feel fed up with everything in life, and just can't find enjoyment in the things that they used to enjoy in life. You are doing the right thing in being supportive of him, but i would also suggest doing some research so that you can truly understand what he is going through, and so will be able to further support him. Depression can be triggered by a lot of things, but the difference with depression and just "feeling down" is that depression lasts for weeks/months/years, and can be accompanied by lack of motivation, lack of sleep, tiredness, anxiety, lack of self worth ect. If after doing some research you are pretty sure that this is a depression, then he needs to get some help to get through this. Often with men they feel that admitting to being depressed is a sign of weakness, and seeking help further proves this in their mind. So you will have a tough job on your hands in getting him to seek help. There are a lot of websites out there that give good advice on helping loved ones, here is just one i found: http://depression.about.com/cs/basicfacts/a/howtohelp.htm Just keep doing the right thing in being supportive, good luck to you and god bless.
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my fiance broke up with me 4 days ago, he said our arguement during the last few days was only part of it, but also he was fed up of life, himself, me..im starting to think he may be suffering from depression due to being let down by job prospects abroad : refused jobs in qatar 2 times and waiting for job in italy for over 2.5 years. he is a qualified nurse in Tunisia which pays low so he cant afford to save for us to get engaged or married at the moment. he is also working 2 jobs in hospital&airport to save a bit. but i want to know if ppl wud say he sounds like his suffering from depression, if so what shud i do? i sent him a sms 2 b supportive a few mins ago, but im worried he will isolate himself more unless i do more to fix our relationship..plz help. thx
Mental Health - 1 Answers
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It does sound as though he is depressed, but then who can blame him as you explained his job situation, being turned down all the time from job prospects would bring anyone down. The key signs is when he said that he is fed up with life, himself and you. Depression sufferers often feel fed up with everything in life, and just can't find enjoyment in the things that they used to enjoy in life. You are doing the right thing in being supportive of him, but i would also suggest doing some research so that you can truly understand what he is going through, and so will be able to further support him. Depression can be triggered by a lot of things, but the difference with depression and just "feeling down" is that depression lasts for weeks/months/years, and can be accompanied by lack of motivation, lack of sleep, tiredness, anxiety, lack of self worth ect. If after doing some research you are pretty sure that this is a depression, then he needs to get some help to get through this. Often with men they feel that admitting to being depressed is a sign of weakness, and seeking help further proves this in their mind. So you will have a tough job on your hands in getting him to seek help. There are a lot of websites out there that give good advice on helping loved ones, here is just one i found: http://depression.about.com/cs/basicfacts/a/howtohelp.htm Just keep doing the right thing in being supportive, good luck to you and god bless.
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Saturday, January 1, 2011
Chinese Translation ? helppppp
Chinese Translation ? helppppp?
im doing an oral at my chinese class about my family need help can some one translate english to chinese plz i have a twin brother my mom is a nurse my family is from Philippines my mom is from italy we speak tagalog i do not have a sister my mom is italian Thanks so much Guys
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我有一对åŒèƒžèƒŽ 我的妈妈是一个护士 我家æ¥è‡ªè²å¾‹å®¾ 我的妈妈æ¥è‡ª italy 我们说 tagalog 我没有一个å§å¦¹ 我的妈妈是æ„大利的
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我一个åŒèƒžèƒŽå¼Ÿ (wÇ’ yÄ« ge shuÄngbÄotÄidì) = I have a twin brother 我妈妈是护士 (wÇ’ mÄma shì hùshi) = My mom is a nurse 我家è²å¾‹å®¾äºº (wÇ’ jiÄ fÄ“ilÇœbÄ«nrén) = My family is from the Philippines 我妈妈是æ„大利人 (wÇ’ mÄma shì yìdà lìrén) = My mom is from Italy / My mom is Italian æˆ‘ä»¬è¯´ä»–åŠ ç¥¿èªž (wÇ’men shuÅ tÄjiÄlùyÇ”) = We speak Tagalog 我没有å§å§ (wÇ’ méi yÇ’u jiÄ›jie) = I don't have an older sister 我没有妹妹 (wÇ’ méi yÇ’u mèimei) = I don't have a younger sister I'm not sure if åŒèƒžèƒŽå¼Ÿ (shuÄngbÄotÄidì) or 护士 (hùshi) are correctly. I'm not a native speaker, so anyone's welcome to correct me!
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im doing an oral at my chinese class about my family need help can some one translate english to chinese plz i have a twin brother my mom is a nurse my family is from Philippines my mom is from italy we speak tagalog i do not have a sister my mom is italian Thanks so much Guys
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我有一对åŒèƒžèƒŽ 我的妈妈是一个护士 我家æ¥è‡ªè²å¾‹å®¾ 我的妈妈æ¥è‡ª italy 我们说 tagalog 我没有一个å§å¦¹ 我的妈妈是æ„大利的
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我一个åŒèƒžèƒŽå¼Ÿ (wÇ’ yÄ« ge shuÄngbÄotÄidì) = I have a twin brother 我妈妈是护士 (wÇ’ mÄma shì hùshi) = My mom is a nurse 我家è²å¾‹å®¾äºº (wÇ’ jiÄ fÄ“ilÇœbÄ«nrén) = My family is from the Philippines 我妈妈是æ„大利人 (wÇ’ mÄma shì yìdà lìrén) = My mom is from Italy / My mom is Italian æˆ‘ä»¬è¯´ä»–åŠ ç¥¿èªž (wÇ’men shuÅ tÄjiÄlùyÇ”) = We speak Tagalog 我没有å§å§ (wÇ’ méi yÇ’u jiÄ›jie) = I don't have an older sister 我没有妹妹 (wÇ’ méi yÇ’u mèimei) = I don't have a younger sister I'm not sure if åŒèƒžèƒŽå¼Ÿ (shuÄngbÄotÄidì) or 护士 (hùshi) are correctly. I'm not a native speaker, so anyone's welcome to correct me!
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